The key to success is knowing how to communicate with others. Whether
you are a real estate investor, work at a fast food restaurant,
or are a doctor, without good communication skills people won't
like you. Have you ever met someone and didn't like them, but didn't
know why you didn't like them? They just "rubbed you the wrong
way." Subconsciously you did not like their communication skills.
My goal is to teach you to master your communication skills so that
you can have others eating out of the palm of your hand.
Sounds good, where do I begin? Embedded commands. What the heck
are embedded commands? Embedded commands are patterns of language
that bypass conscious reasoning and speak directly to the subconscious
mind. Embedded commands influence people at the subconscious level.
This allows you to direct people to take specific actions.
Our subconscious mind is in a constant search for patterns. Using
one embedded command at a time is not a pattern. You have to basically,
bombard your customer with command after command to get what you
want. Our conversations have become so routine that our mind has
virtually fallen asleep. Our subconscious mind runs on auto-pilot.
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As you get older, don't you find yourself saying, "I've heard
this before?" That's because we have stored millions of conversations
in our subconscious mind. When using embedded commands correctly,
you create unusual patterns of language that force the subconscious
mind to wake up and pay attention. The result? The subconscious
has received a direct and specific command and feels compelled to
act upon it.
Let's look at a few embedded commands and then I'll show you how
to use them in sentences:
Sign the contract, trust me, accept this offer, work with me, sell
this house, decide now, act now, do as I say, feel motivated, get
excited, take action, agree with me, convince yourself, believe
me, extend the agreement, come to my office, sign this now, listen
to me, accept less, take notes.
When you are in normal everyday conversations with investors, bankers,
and distressed homeowners, you can influence them to sell this house,
sign the deed, sign the contract, accept this offer or whatever
it is that you want them to do by using proper communication.
Here is an example of a few sentences using embedded commands.
The commands are bolded to help you see them:
When I arrive at the distressed homeowner's property, I begin by
saying, "Usually my customers do as I say. Shall we begin?"
It's funny to see their reaction to that command. They always say,
"Okay!" and we get to work. As we are walking from the
front door to the kitchen table, subconsciously they are thinking,
"Did he just say I had to do what he said?"
You should work with me, so I can help you get what you want.
You must take notes when you see me speak. You will learn so
much more.
You can begin to relax now that I am here.
You need to think deeply about what you're saying.
I don't know when you'll feel motivated to work with me. You
have to trust your feelings and make that decision.
Mrs. Homeowner, when you decide now to sign the contract, you'll
know you made the right decision. I will get you out of this situation
and that's what you want isn't it?
Are you beginning to understand embedded commands? They direct
people to take action: "sign the deed" is a command. Remember,
embedded commands bypass conscious reasoning and speak directly
to the subconscious level.
Subconsciously the people you are speaking to want to do what you
are telling them to do. The secret to using embedded commands successfully
is repetition. Commands are like time bombs. When you use one command,
you don't instantly see a reaction. When you say a command, you
plant it in the subconscious mind and it grows into an action. Commands
only work in massive quantities. Remember, the subconscious is looking
for patterns. Multiple commands become the new pattern.
Take a moment and write five sentences each for banks and distressed
homeowners using embedded commands. Practice them daily and the
next time you are speaking with a bank or distressed homeowner,
use them and watch how excited they will be to work with you and
how easily your deals will fall into place.
About the author
Bill Twyford has been buying foreclosures for almost a decade.
In his first year as an investor, he sold eighty properties. The
money was ten times better than any commission he had earned, so
he made the switch from agent to investor, and his career took off.
To date he has sold well over 850 properties.
Bill is so successful because he has learned the art of communication.
The difference between earning good money and great money is the
way you speak. Learning Neuro Linguistic Programming, NLP, will
change your life, too.
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